You A’da Know…It’s My Dad’s Birthday

This is one of those mornings that I wish I could get a hall pass to slip into heaven to give my dad a big hug and kiss. We’d go bowling, talk and laugh over dinner and then dance the night away to his Motown faves.

Who am I kidding, though? If I had that option I would abuse the privilege and spend all the time I could with my loved ones that are so very missed. Jesus would see me and say, “You’re here AGAIN?!”

I know in my heart that Leonard Woolfolk still feels my love and all of the hugs and kisses that I wish I could give him. And I feel his too. Happy Birthday, Dad!

With love eternal from your Girl. ❤️

When The Greatest Loses The Fight …

My heart is really with Laila Ali, her siblings and the entire Ali family this morning.

I know all too well what it feels like to see your daddy who had always been your hero and a symbol and figure of strength for your entire life fall victim to a horrible illness that ultimately makes his body betray him and the image of that physical strength.

To see your dad deteriorate over the years is a horrible thing, but to see the fight that he musters to come against the illness that is doing everything to overcome him and in that to see your father fight it with dignity, beauty and strength of character makes him even more heroic ultimately.

Even under those circumstances, maybe especially so, to lose your father totally takes the wind out of you, makes you lose your footing, catches you completely off guard and grounds you to the mat. I guess that is very much what a knockout feels like in the boxing ring, only you never recover from it.

Whenever I hear of someone that I know my dad admired or loved passing on, I wonder what my dad says when he sees them walking through the Pearly Gates. This morning I imagine my dad seeing Muhammad Ali walk in and I know he got that twinkle in his eye, made that special grin, chuckled and walked up to the Champ and welcomed him home.

Rest in power, Muhammad Ali. Strength and love to the Ali family.

I miss my dad, my Champ and Greatest of All Time, so much. Continue to rest in power, Dad.

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